Pre-Divorce Preparation Guide
You don't have to make a decision today.
You only need to be ready to understand your options.
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Before we start
Answer 4 quick questions. Your guide will then be personalised to your country, your state, your situation, and what matters most to you right now.
46-document vault with exactly how to find each one
State-specific legal rights, support amounts, and filing rules
A personalised week-by-week exit plan built from your answers
Everything stays on your phone. Nothing is sent anywhere. Ever.
Takes about 2 minutes
YOUR TOOLKIT
Everything you need before you walk into that attorney's office.
Recommended order: Start with the Exit Timeline to get your personalised plan. Then work through the Document Vault. Then fill in the Attorney Prep before your first consultation. Use the Evidence Vault and Journal regularly throughout.
Document Vault
Every document you need across 7 categories. Track what you have, where it is, and what is still missing. Includes why each document matters and how to get it.
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Attorney Prep + Readiness Score
A Divorce Readiness Score, your situation summary, and your top questions ready for the first appointment. Printable PDF.
Tap to begin
Custody Preparation Center
Daily caregiver log, parenting timeline, child profiles, and a full custody question bank. Builds a printable packet for your attorney.
Tap to begin
My Support Network
Build your private list of people who can help. Emotional support, financial backup, a spare room, practical help. Know who to call before you need to call them.
Tap to build your network
Financial Exit Calculator
Monthly budget, emergency fund runway, leaving cost estimator, and your Exit Readiness Meter in green, amber, or red.
Tap to calculate
Evidence Vault
Log every piece of evidence - screenshots, recordings, police reports, texts. Timestamped and organised for your attorney.
Tap to log evidence
Exit Timeline Generator
A personalised week-by-week action plan built from your answers. Know exactly what to do and in what order.
Generate my plan →
Find My Attorney
State-specific family law resources, domestic violence legal aid, and free consultation directories based on your state.
View resources for my state
Print My Divorce Binder
Generate a complete printable binder with all your documents, financials, custody notes, attorney prep, and evidence in one PDF.
Generate full binder
All data is stored privately on your device only. Nothing is sent anywhere. Export your backup from the Guide screen.
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Check each document. Note where it is stored. Print your vault report for your attorney.
What happened. How you handled it. How far you have come.
Every section. Every item. Every note.
You showed up for yourself when it was hard and quiet and scary to hope.
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